10 Non-Sexual Ways To Please Your Mistress

by Ms. Constance

When it comes to ways to please your Mistress, it is important to know what type of Mistress she is and what things she enjoys. Pleasing a Mistress is not a one-size-fits-all type thing.  Obviously, you need to put time and effort into pleasing her.

The following 10 things are ways to please your Mistress that have nothing to do with sex but have everything to do with making your Mistress truly Pleased and Happy.

1: Spend time with her and get to know what makes her happy. Basically, be interested in what she has to say and how she feels about things. Listening and getting to know your Mistress will make your job of pleasing her so much easier.

2: Show your devotion once you have gotten to know your Mistress. Understand what makes her tick. Then show her your total and undying devotion to her and her needs. Praise her in all ways you possibly can and tell her that she is the Only Mistress for you and that your devotion to her is everlasting.

3: Be generous with your time and with your small tokens of devotion. There is no need to go overboard with gifts, especially if you can’t afford them. But small, thoughtful gifts are one great way to please Mistress and show her how much you care.

Be Respectful At All Times 

4: Be respectful at all times. Even when your day is a rough one still be respectful of your Femdom Mistress. Never take out your frustrations or problems on your Mistress. Instead, ask her for guidance and support. Never disrespect your Mistress in any way, including the actions you take when not in her presence. You represent your Mistress.  Always be respectful of your place.

5: Appreciating your Mistress is an excellent way of pleasing her.  Understanding what she does for you both on and off the phone and all that she gives of herself. Equally important, appreciate the time she gives you and the thought she puts into your play time and daily communication.

6: Make her smile— Yes, you read that right.  You can please your Mistress by making it your goal to put a smile on her face daily. If you know your Mistress well enough, you will know just how to please her and put a smile on her face.

7: Make it all about your Mistress and Her needs. She is your Mistress and you want to please her by making her a priority and putting her needs above yours.  You will be pleasing her in ways that you just can’t really understand.

8: Communicate with your Mistress. This may seem like a strange way to please her, but honestly, by communicating your needs and your daily details with her, you let her know where your head is at.  You are pleasing her.

Your Mistress should never have to guess what is going on with you.  Furthermore, it is your job to communicate clearly with her and take all the guess work out of it.

9: Please your Mistress by doing what is asked of you in a timely manner. Nothing displeases a Mistress like excuses for everything. If your Mistress assigns you something to do, complete it in a timely manner and do so eagerly. If you can’t do this, she should know up front and not when you are making excuses for why it is not being done.

10: Do not whine and complain and look for fault. Pleasing your Mistress goes deeper than sexually pleasing her and being a whiney, complaining sub does not please her, trust me! You can voice your opinions and you can share your thoughts, but don’t whine and complain. It is not fun or exciting and certainly not how you please your Mistress.