There is a single sentence that can help you overcome almost any challenge you may face as a submissive. It's a sentence that will perhaps resonate with you immediately, and have the effect of a magic wand once you "hear" it, or it may be a sentence that you will need to repeat like a mantra until it sinks deeply enough into your kink DNA that it becomes second nature: You Belong to Me. So much can and will become possible when you internalize that bit of the Femdom law according to Goddess Rachel. Those nagging voices that tempt you to follow your own will rather than Mine will crop up, and be batted down, if you will just meditate on and steep yourself in the wisdom of the above statement. Let Me give you an example:
"I can't ruin My orgasms. It feels too good to stop stroking at the point of ejaculation." But, My dear subbie, you belong to Me. That means, "your" orgasms do as well. Assimilate this fact, and you will see the logic in the idea that I can and will do whatever I like with My balls, My cock, and yes, My orgasms. I will compel them, ruin them, deny them, whatever My whims dictate. Continuing with O/ur example, you may say, "But I will be so frustrated. My--I mean your balls will be so tight and blue." And then I will benevolently apply an addendum to the original wisdom-filled sentence that should only underscore its importance: Yes, but your frustration pleases Me. Or whatever it may be: your frustration, your humiliation, your ecstasy, your pain. . . The Femdom Law according to Goddess Rachel applies no matter what your kink may be. Furthermore, what pleases Me, you will be tasked to learn, is so much more important than insignificant things like your physical comfort or personal dignity. Once you do learn this, really digest it, you may be lucky enough to find that you can experience, through My pleasure, a deeper, more meaningful kind of satisfaction. The satisfaction that comes when you are so deeply submitted to Me, that what pleases Me, pleases you. I will feast on the control of your impulses, your desires, your will, your fears and fantasies, and you will find that you are so full from the mere crumbs from My table of pleasure that you will wonder why you ever thought of anything other than making Me happy. Some of you learn so much more readily when under the sway of My very own voice, so feel free to hear Me read this lesson by clicking the icon above labeled "hear my voice". by Ms. Ryan Did you know your Femdom Mistress can help you improve yourself? One of the misconceptions that I think many men have about the Femdom/male submissive relationship is that it must be all about sex, or at least sensuality. This couldn’t be farther from the truth. That’s not to say that there’s anything wrong with sex and sensuality or anything like that. Of course not! But a good D/s relationship, like any other relationship, must be based on something more than just that. A D/s relationship with a good foundation will have two (or more) participants who genuinely care about one another. For some, it might be in a romantic fashion. For others, like myself, it might be more of a friendship with an interesting power dynamic built into it. Because I do care for my subs, when they come to me to tell me that they’d like to do something to improve themselves, I do my best to help them. I’m almost never the one to bring it up, mind you. People won’t be committed to trying to change if it’s not something they want for themselves. But once they’ve made up their minds to do so, I’m all for helping if I can. Sometimes, these self-improvements are, in fact, sexually-related. Perhaps I have a sub who wishes to break the vicious cycle of a masturbation addiction, or maybe I have a slave who would like to increase his sexual stamina, or one who hopes to go into long-term chastity, even. But, as my relationships are based in more than just sex and sensuality, it’s also not unusual for a sub to come to me for assistance with non-erotic things as well. I have had subs ask me to help them with things like dieting, exercise, time management, and even things like improving their study habits or helping them learn new languages. In my experience, one of the most important things in trying to change or improve oneself is making sure that you’re held accountable for your actions (or your inaction). Some people can do this for themselves. Others need outside help with it. If you’re one of those who needs someone else to hold you accountable, don’t feel as though you’re weak or undisciplined. Just be grateful that you have a Mistress who’s willing to help you with it. In addition to holding you accountable, a Mistress can also help you come up with a plan to achieve your goals. Having outside advice can be invaluable when it comes to these sorts of things, and when the outside advice comes from someone who is truly invested in helping you better yourself, it’s even more valuable. She can also create a system of punishments and rewards to help motivate you and ensure that you’re doing everything you can to achieve your goals. She can be a coach, pushing you on when you don’t believe you’ve got it in yourself to continue. She can be a sympathetic listening ear or a strict drillmaster, depending on what it is that you need at any given time. Ultimately, though, it’s the caring D/s relationship itself that provides the most help in these kinds of situations. You want to please your Mistress, yes? By sticking to your plans and achieving your goals, you will please her, and that, for nearly sub, is plenty of motivation to do what needs to be done. Give one of our Femdom Mistresses a call, today! 
Rachel
Email me at Rachel@EnchantrixEmpire.com
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